“Damn right I like the life I live, ’cause I went from negative to positive”
– Notorious B.I.G. on “Juicy“

I remember when I first heard that happiness is a choice. I was like hmmm, that’s an interesting take on it. I struggled with the idea, especially with the hardships I faced. As I thought about it though, it began to resonate. I mean, it’s definitely oversimplified, but it made sense. So, let’s talk about it. Let’s talk about choosing happiness.

Before we get there though, I first wanna welcome you! Welcome to the Ajaxxx.com February 2020 Opinions Column. For those that are new to the site, this is the place where I talk about what’s going on in my head. For those returning, good to see you back! And with that, let’s talk about how we can take actions to position ourselves to live happier.

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“Cause you know life is what we make it
and a chance is like a picture, it’d be nice if you just take it”

– Drake on Alicia Key’s “Un-Thinkable (I’m Ready) Remix“

No matter how eventful my life is, I often remind myself to stay grounded. Life is full of ups and downs and twists and turns. What I’ve learned is that no matter what I’m going through (no matter how bad), there’s something good right around the corner waiting to happen. I know it’s hard to consider that when you’re caught in the moment, but trust me…the best is yet to come.

What is up my peoples! Welcome one and all to the July 2014 Opinions Column aka my birthday month! Excuse me while I get hype!!!!!!! Haha, I always get excited in July since it’s my birthday month. It’s especially exciting this month since I’ve made great strides in the last year. For those that’re new to the site, this is the place where you can deep within the microcosms of my brain to find out what’s up with me. For those returning, you know the drills! Andddddddd with the formalities a thing of the past, let’s talk about LIFE.

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“That’s when you ask yourself how bad do you want
When the man in the mirror is your only opponent”

– Jon Connor on “Lose Yourself“

It seems like negativity is something that nobody can escape. You will have haters, doubters, nay-sayers, trash talkers, and the like come around at some point. You’ll meet dishonest, disloyal people that have ulterior motives and you’ll have all sorts of krazy experiences. It’s not that you go searching for it or that you put yourself in that position…it’s life. Despite all that life throws at you though, you have to surround yourself with a positive vibe and positive attitude. Is it hard? Absolutely? Have I got it down? LoL You can say I’m still working on it. All I do know is, in this krazy world that we call life, it’s either change your outlook or let your outlook change you.

What’s upppppppppp people? Welcome on and all to the Ajaxxx.com October 2013 Opinions Column. This is the sole spot on the whole planet where you can learn more about yours truly on a deeper, more personal NSA-style level. For that that’re new to the site, WELCOME! Glad to have you join me. And for those that’re returning, much thanks and welcome back! So with that, let’s talk about the month that was September.

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