Monday, December 16th, 2019

“Dig deep in your mind, no pressure, no diamonds”
– Fat Joe on “Lord Above

They say that in order to behave differently, you have to think differently. Whether that’s looking at things from a different perspective, or approaching things in a brand new way, these types of moves can help you progress more effectively. And whether it’s moving more efficiently, or cutting out the clutter, there’s lots of things we can do to become better versions of ourselves. Basically what I’m trying to say is…maybe we can benefit from a mindset change.

Before we get ahead of ourselves though, WHAT’S UP people? What’s going on? Welcome to the December 2019 Opinions Column. For those that are new to the site, this is where I talk about what’s going on with me and what’s on my mind. For those that are returning, welcome back! With December upon us (wow, where’d the year go?), I thought it would be a good opportunity to talk about how we can shift our mindsets to become better…especially ahead of the new year AND decade (whoa).

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Monday, November 11th, 2019

“Diamonds are forever like my infinite thought”
– Guru on Gang Starr’s “Family & Loyalty

It’s often easy to get down about things, especially when life isn’t going your way. Whether it’s your career, relationships, or whatever else, sometimes we experience “slumps” and need to pick ourselves up outta them. So just how do we do it? Perhaps we take on an activity we enjoy, spend time with friends, or read a book. Or, perhaps there’s another way…maybe it’s by rethinking our attitude. Welcome to the bright side.

Before we jump ahead though, welcome! Welcome to the Ajaxxx.com 2019 Opinions Column. For those new to the site, this is where I talk about whatever’s going on within my mind. So, welcome! And for those returning, welcome back! Nowww, to the bright side.

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Sunday, August 11th, 2019

Baseball Stadium

“I’m oblivious to you skeptics
What you hear you ain’t ever hear ’til I repped it”
– Nas on “No Bad Energy

You often hear people talk about how you gotta prove the haters wrong. “Don’t listen to them,” they say. “You got this.” I definitely agree with this. Don’t pay too much mind to those that aren’t doing it – they don’t know your struggle. In fact, if you gotta phase them out to keep moving, then do it. But instead of entertaining the haters, I’ve been thinking – what about your supporters?

What’s up y’all? Welcome to the July 2019 Ajaxxx.com Opinions Column. Yes, yes, I know…this post is ridiculously late. I actually started this a few weeks ago and never got around to finishing it. I gotta balance everything better lol. Anyway, for those that are new to the site, this is where I talk about what’s on my mind. For those returning, welcome back! With that saiddd, let’s talk about proving them right.

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Sunday, March 31st, 2019

“And lately I’ve been contemplating
Escaping to get away and go wherever this road takes me
It’s making me crazy”

– Eminem on “In My Head

It’s really easy to overthink things. With me, I’m constantly thinking what will happen, what may happen, and other potential scenarios before taking action. And when you’re overthinking, you’re likely hindering progress and preventing execution. So, what do you do?

Before we answer that, welcome everyone! Welcome to the Ajaxxx.com March 2019 Opinions Column. For those that are new to the site, this is the place where I talk about what’s going on with me. For those that’re returning, welcome back! Anddddddd with that said, let’s talk about getting out of my head.

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Thursday, January 31st, 2019

“We doin it big
Look at what I done
Look at where I’m is
It’s only just begun”

– Drake on “The Winner

They say there’s a time to stop thinking and start doing. That time is now.

What up y’all? What’s going on? Welcome to the January 2019 Opinions Column and the first one for the new year. Whattt! For those that’re new to the site, this is the place where I talk about what’s on my mind. For those returning, welcome back! It’s a glorious time so let’s get right into it.

So let’s talk about execution. For many of us, we’re guilty of being in our heads way too much. Instead of sharing our cool, creative ideas, we keep those ideas in our head. And if those concepts don’t materialize, then it will continue to remain an idea.

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